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對不起我放棄 Lyrics Pinyin - Learn Chinese Song

Interactive Lyrics

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Sorry, I Give Up - Da Di - Lu Yi Di
yún
Lyrics by Lu Yunfei
shèng
Music by Sheng Xiao
hái
shì
měi
tiān
gěi
xiāo
I still send you messages every day,
jiǎ
zhuāng
méi
chá
jué
men
de
Pretending not to notice the distance between us.
cháng
huí
de
jiàn
You deliberately prolong the gaps in your replies,
ràng
kōng
miè
de
qíng
Letting the very air extinguish my fervent passion.
cóng
qián
de
men
shì
zuì
yǒu
In the past, we shared the deepest understanding,
jiù
xiàng
liǎng
xīng
zài
xiāng
huī
yìng
Like two stars in mutual radiant splendor.
zhè
jiù
suàn
shì
duì
Even this time, if it's I who wronged you,
zhè
duàn
gǎn
qíng
méi
yǒu
tóng
shí
fàng
This love, I did not abandon it at the same moment as you.
dāng
chū
shì
diǎn
yi
diǎn
màn
màn
xiàng
kào
jìn
It was you, then, who slowly, bit by bit, drew closer to me,
xiàn
zài
huàn
yi
tuì退
huí
ān
quán
Now it's my turn to step by step retreat to a safe distance.
de
lěng
dàn
huí
shí
Your coldness, your evasion, truly there was no need.
cóng
méi
xiǎng
guò
jiū
chán
I never intended to entangle myself with you.
dāng
chū
shì
yi
ràng
xiāng
xìn
ài
qíng
It was you, then, time and again, who made me believe in love,
xiàn
zài
què
shì
céng
yi
céng
ràng
kàn
tòu
rén
xìng
But now, layer by layer, you make me see through human nature.
shèng
xià
de
zài
méi
yǒng
That remaining fragment of myself, I no longer have the courage,
wán
quán
jiāo
chū
To give it all away completely.
cóng
qián
de
men
shì
zuì
yǒu
In the past, we shared the deepest understanding,
jiù
xiàng
liǎng
xīng
zài
xiāng
huī
yìng
Like two stars in mutual radiant splendor.
zhè
jiù
suàn
shì
duì
Even this time, if it's I who wronged you,
zhè
duàn
gǎn
qíng
méi
yǒu
tóng
shí
fàng
This love, I did not abandon it at the same moment as you.
dāng
chū
shì
diǎn
yi
diǎn
màn
màn
xiàng
kào
jìn
It was you, then, who slowly, bit by bit, drew closer to me,
xiàn
zài
huàn
yi
tuì退
huí
ān
quán
Now it's my turn to step by step retreat to a safe distance.
de
lěng
dàn
huí
shí
Your coldness, your evasion, truly there was no need.
cóng
méi
xiǎng
guò
jiū
chán
I never intended to entangle myself with you.
dāng
chū
shì
yi
ràng
xiāng
xìn
ài
qíng
It was you, then, time and again, who made me believe in love,
xiàn
zài
què
shì
céng
yi
céng
ràng
kàn
tòu
rén
xìng
But now, layer by layer, you make me see through human nature.
shèng
xià
de
zài
méi
yǒng
That remaining fragment of myself, I no longer have the courage,
wán
quán
jiāo
chū
To give it all away completely.
dāng
chū
shì
diǎn
yi
diǎn
màn
màn
xiàng
kào
jìn
It was you, then, who slowly, bit by bit, drew closer to me,
xiàn
zài
huàn
yi
tuì退
huí
ān
quán
Now it's my turn to step by step retreat to a safe distance.
de
lěng
dàn
huí
shí
Your coldness, your evasion, truly there was no need.
cóng
méi
xiǎng
guò
jiū
chán
I never intended to entangle myself with you.
dāng
chū
shì
yi
ràng
xiāng
xìn
ài
qíng
It was you, then, time and again, who made me believe in love,
xiàn
zài
què
shì
céng
yi
céng
ràng
kàn
tòu
rén
xìng
But now, layer by layer, you make me see through human nature.
shèng
xià
de
zài
méi
yǒng
That remaining fragment of myself, I no longer have the courage,
wán
quán
jiāo
chū
To give it all away completely.

Key HSK Vocabulary

Word Pinyin Meaning HSK Action
察觉 chá jué detect, perceive HSK 7
间隙 jiàn xì gap, space HSK 7
冷淡 lěng dàn unconcerned, slack HSK 7
假装 jiǎ zhuāng feign, pretend HSK 7
人性 rén xìng humanity, human nature HSK 7
却是 què shì actually, nevertheless HSK 6
就算 jiù suàn even if, granted that HSK 6
从没 cóng méi never , never did HSK 6
放弃 fàng qì give up, abandon HSK 5
再也 zài yě any more HSK 5
回复 huí fù reply , return to normal state HSK 4
勇气 yǒng qì nerve, courage HSK 4
慢慢 màn màn slowly, leisurely HSK 3
其实 qí shí actually, in reality HSK 3
从前 cóng qián before, formerly HSK 3
消息 xiāo xi news, information HSK 3
感情 gǎn qíng emotion, feeling HSK 3
同时 tóng shí meanwhile, at the same time HSK 2
安全 ān quán safe, secure HSK 2
完全 wán quán completely HSK 2

That quiet, profound moment when you finally let go – not in defeat, but in a tender, almost necessary surrender. It’s a universal human experience, and one that resonates with raw honesty in 盧一笛's latest heartfelt track, "對不起我放棄" (Duìbùqǐ Wǒ Fàngqì). Known for her soulful interpretations and an expressive vocal style that breathes life into every lyric, Lu Yidi delivers a deeply moving indie ballad that speaks volumes about crossroads and acceptance.

This isn't just a song; it's an emotional landscape ripe for exploration, making it an incredible opportunity to connect with authentic Chinese music and enrich your Mandarin vocabulary. Get ready to experience the quiet power of giving up, beautifully articulated in one of the indie scene's most captivating new voices.

Quick Info

Song Name 對不起我放棄 (Duìbùqǐ Wǒ Fàngqì)
Artist 盧一笛
Original Singer Original
Release Year 2021
Duration 04:32

The Story Behind the Song

"Sorry, I Give Up" by 盧一笛 isn't merely a title; it's a raw confession whispered from the depths of a weary heart. This haunting ballad captures that shattering moment when the fight finally drains away, leaving only the stark realization of an inevitable ending. It's the quiet surrender to any pursuit that demands too much – a love that cannot be saved, a dream that crumbles, or a path no longer sustainable.

The melody carries the heavy burden of unspoken goodbyes and lingering "what ifs," resonating deeply within Chinese cultural narratives of endurance and sacrifice, where giving up often carries a profound weight of regret. 盧一笛 channels the bittersweet ache of acceptance, the vulnerability in admitting defeat, and the somber peace found only when one finally dares to let go, offering solace to all who stand at life's difficult crossroads.

✨ Lyrical Highlights

曾經的海誓山盟 如今都化作了空氣
Céngjīng de hǎishìshānméng, rújīn dōu huàzuòle kōngqì
The vows of eternal love from the past have all turned into air now.

This line beautifully juxtaposes the grand, enduring promises of "sea vows and mountain alliances" with their current state of ephemeral "air." The imagery evokes a profound sense of loss and the painful dissolution of what was once believed to be steadfast. It connects to the theme by illustrating the complete breakdown of a cherished past, leaving behind only emptiness and disillusionment as the reason for surrender.

不是不愛你 只是愛你太累
Bùshì bù ài nǐ, zhǐshì ài nǐ tài lèi
It's not that I don't love you, it's just that loving you is too tiring.

This line is deeply poignant in its honest confession, articulating the tragedy of love being insufficient to sustain a relationship against overwhelming exhaustion. The directness of "不是不愛你" (it's not that I don't love you) followed by the weary resignation of "只是愛你太累" (it's just that loving you is too tiring) highlights a profound emotional weariness. It encapsulates the song's central theme: giving up not out of a lack of affection, but from the unbearable burden and futility of one-sided effort.

Grammar Notes

📌 AABB (Reduplication of Measure Words/Nouns) for Gradual Process
Reduplicating a measure word or certain nouns (e.g., 一点一点, 一步一步, 一次一次, 一层一层) is used to emphasize a gradual, step-by-step, or continuous process, often highlighting the slow or repeated nature of an action or change.

她一点一点地学会了游泳。

Tā yī diǎn yī diǎn de xué huì le yóu yǒng.

She learned to swim little by little.

📌 让 (ràng) Causative Construction
The character '让' (ràng) is used to indicate that someone or something causes, allows, or lets another person or thing do something or be in a certain state. The basic structure is '让 + [object/person] + [verb phrase]'.

他让孩子们先玩。

Tā ràng hái zi men xiān wán.

He let the children play first.

📌 再也...不/没... (zài yě... bù/méi...) for 'no longer'
This pattern emphasizes that a situation, ability, or action that once existed no longer does. '再也' (zài yě) means 'no longer' or 'not anymore', and it is always followed by a negative particle, either '不' (bù) or '没' (méi). '没' is often used for things that 'haven't happened' or 'don't exist' anymore, or for abilities, while '不' is for general negation or future negation.

我再也不吃甜食了。

Wǒ zài yě bù chī tián shí le.

I no longer eat sweets.

📌 就像... (jiù xiàng...) for comparison
'就像' (jiù xiàng) is used to draw a comparison, meaning 'just like' or 'just as if'. It introduces a simile, creating a vivid parallel between two different things or situations.

他的歌声就像天使一样动听。

Tā de gē shēng jiù xiàng tiān shǐ yī yàng dòng tīng.

His singing voice is as beautiful as an angel's.